The Appointment We've Been Waiting For

Bob and I are both feeling very overwhelmed after our appointment. The Dr. and staff were very kind and friendly, but it's a lot of information to take in (and it was way to early in the morning for us!)

When we first arrived, we met with one of the residents to do a full health history on both of us. After our history was taken, we were taken to Dr. D's office to go over the "results" and his recommendations. He said, based on the fact that we're both healthy and have no known underlying issues, there are three possible causes for us having issues getting pregnant: 1) poor egg quality 2) Low sperm count/poor sperm motility, or 3) blockage/deformity of fallopian tubes. He's confident that there's no issue with actual ovulation, as I've tracked that previously. 

So, pretty much, no answers, but at least we now have a direction. Here's what the next 1-3 weeks look like for us:

1) Bloodwork to check prolactin and TSH (thyroid stimulating hormone).

2) SA (Semen Analysis).

3) HSG (Hysterosalpingogram) - basically, this is an x-ray that uses dye to look at the uterus and fallopian tubes to make sure there's no obstruction. This will happen sometime between cycle days 5-10. And yes, it will probably hurt like the dickens! I need to be on an antibiotic and pain meds prior to going in.

4) Ultrasound - This will happen on cycle day 13 or 14 to make sure that my eggs are developing normally and to establish "normal" ovulation.

5) Consultation to review all test results and determine the best course of treatment.

It was overwhelming to be told the amount of tests we have to do in the next week or two, but I'm glad that they're willing to move quickly. I was also relieved that they didn't once question the fact that we want to move forward with testing. So many people (doctors included) have told us to "just relax" or that we "haven't been trying long enough." And, while neither of us want there to be a problem, I'm glad to know Dr. D agreed that there's probablay an issue.

The next problem to tackle the cost of all of these tests. Unfortunately, based on the research I've done so far, our insurance doesn't cover the cost of any fertility treatments. The appointment today was $240; thankfully they offer a voucher for a free first appointment if you attend their free seminar. So, we haven't had to pay anything yet. But it's looking this the tests alone are going to cause our bank account to dwindle.

1) SA - $150
2) HSG - $400-$700
3) Ultrasound - average $500

It's possible that some of the proceedures will be covered, depending on diagnosis used. We have to continue to look into the costs, but we'd certainly appreciate prayers in this particular aread. We don't want to become consumed with the money, but it's definitely a concern.

Thank you to each and everyone of you that has commented, facebooked, emailed and left messages of encouragement. It's so encouraging to know that our family and friends are praying for us and are walking through this with us.

We'll continue to keep you updated as things progress.

B&B